What is 'doy'? And why don't you get a lot of it these days?
Rachel has lost her engagement ring. Guys are helping her to find it.
Joey: Alright, when did you have it on last?
Phoebe: Doy! Probably right before she lost it!
Chandler: You don't get a lot of 'doy' these days...
What meaning does this doy-exclamation carry? And why is it currently out of fashion?
Doy is a word from social dialect in American English called Valleyspeak. This style of speaking has been trending in 1980s and 1990s, with a pick from 1981 to 1985. So it makes sense that Chandler notices that Phoebe's "doy" that means sort of "wasn't this obvious, huh?" goes out of fashion.
The Valleyspeak itself is a lot about the way it sounds, not the words exactly. It includes such features as nasal sound, fast-paced run-on sentences, breathiness, uptalk, or the sound of a question and vocal fry. If you wan to get a sense of it listen to Britney Spears or Kim Kardashian talk.
But also there is a list of words that give away the Valleyspeak influence. Watch out for "to be all" or "to be all like" used in the same manner as "to be like", "whatever" or "as if" used to express any disbelief. Also "totally" meaning "quite" or "very", "seriously" as a frequent interjection of approval or an inquiry of veracity. I remember hearing some characters in movies use "bitchin'" meaning "excellent", and "grody" meaning "dirty". And I myself do overuse "like" to help me keep my speech flowing.
Knowing these words it might me seductive to try and include them in your speech. I wouldn't if you can. They say Valleyspeak is often thought to be "silly" and "superficial" and seen as a sign of low intelligence. Speakers are also often perceived as "materialistic" and "air-headed".
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